February 04, (THEWILL) – Veteran actor, singer, and writer, Onyeka Onwenu, recently disclosed that if she had not left her marriage, it would have ended her life.
The ‘Elegant Stallion’ as she is fondly called, recently spoke of her relationship in an interview with Kikelomo Atanda-Owo.
The 70-year-old said she did not want her marriage to end. She, however, added that staying in the marriage would have killed her because it was difficult for her.
“I went through it, it was difficult because I really didn’t want my marriage to end, but I couldn’t take it anymore, it would have killed me,” she said.
“I always say that that is the truth and it was not good for the children to live in that kind of environment where the mother is depressed, the mother is carrying the weight of the whole family.
“I raised my children from kindergarten to master’s degree. My husband didn’t pay school fees for one day, didn’t buy clothes, didn’t pay for holidays, didn’t give me housekeeping money.
“But he was a nice and kind and generous man and basically, there was control where if you didn’t do the things he wanted, ‘well I’m not going to help you, I’m not going to give you money’.
“And I would like to say this to Nigerians, any man who has children has a family and decides not to take care of them, you’ll have to answer to God.”
Onwenu is the mother of two children, named Tijani Charles and Ibrahim.
In September 2020, she had opened up on how she got married to a Yoruba Muslim in 1984.
Onyeka, who has done pretty well for herself was the former chairperson of the Imo State Council for Arts and Culture. In 2013 she was appointed the Executive Director/Chief Executive Officer of the National Centre for Women Development.
Her recent book, My Father’s Daughter, is to be adapted to a television series by filmmaker, Izu Ojukwu and other interesting actors, soon.
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