March 04, (THEWILL) – Alexer Perez Gopa, estranged wife of Singer, Harrison Tare Okiri, aka Harrysong, has opened up about her experiences in their marriage.
This comes after the announcement of her separation from the singer in January.
Their marital crisis started after their alleged WhatsApp chat got leaked on social media, following which she wrote, “I’m done officially, God help me.”
Alexer claims that Harrysong had always told her that he never loved her.
She claimed the hitmaker wanted a male child, which always caused friction between them.
The entrepreneur said anytime she complains about the alleged abuse, the singer will always taunt her by saying he did not marry her out of love, but pity.
“It all started when I gave birth to my second child and she became a girl. Before that, he was already saying he wants a boy. Secondly was the cheating part that was becoming too much. Everybody will be like he is a celebrity you know before you enter. That one will not be a problem. Which is understandable. A man that cheats will come back home.
“Not the one that you will now go out to do it and bring it to my face. If I talk I will still end up being the one begging, because I want to keep the marriage. I have complained to all my family members. It has been going on and on. When he gets up and is so angry he will slap me. The amount of infections I have treated as a result of this whole thing is too much.
“I am currently pregnant. I gave him space for one year before I conceived. He said we should keep it because he was looking for a boy. He threw me to the wall with this pregnancy. The doctor was like my breath was seizing.
“Anytime I talk he would say he did not marry me out of love. It is out of pity. That I should take anything that he gives to me.”
Harrysong and Alexer tied the knot in March 2021, in Warri. Their union is blessed with two children.
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